I received this email…

My friend slept with my husband and I found out. She said it was to prove that my husband is no good for me and we should divorce. I’m heartbroken. What should I do?

Shelly in AZ

Between You and Me, she is very correct in the statement that your husband is no good. What she failed to include is that she is no good as well. There is no feasible explanation that would make her sleeping with your husband sound like the right thing to do in order to prove a point. This is the age of technology. She could have easily recorded him in a compromising position without actually sleeping with him. She could have talked to him as a concerned friend. She could have given you a name to a good marriage counselor. So many steps could have been taken other than stripping down and having sex.

You stated that you found out. Not that she told you. Not that he told you. But you found out. That tells me that this has more than likely been an ongoing relationship and you are the last to know. It takes a different kind of desperation to pretend to be someone’s friend and behind her back carry on an affair with her husband.

She wanted your husband for herself and now she has had him. Point blank period. She wants you to get a divorce so that she can move right into your space. I’m sure if you think back you can see all sorts of red flags about how she talks about him or how she acts around him. Nobody just offers themselves up as a pawn in the sex game to prove a point. Nope, she wanted him.

Let’s not just fault the friend and I do use that term loosely. He is the one who really owes you loyalty. Not her. He is the one who took vows to protect your heart and be there for you. Forsaking all others. That is not how you show loyalty. That is how you tell a person you really don’t care at all. He is telling you and showing you just how selfish he really is.

Now I really hope that you get rid of her definitely. She is toxic and not good for you. I cannot speak for your marriage, but if it was me, they both could go to hell in a hand basket.

I wish you luck with how this situation turns out

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